About a month or so ago I went out for drinks with some friends from work. In the midst of the drinking and laughter (and more drinking), the subject of "non-negotiables" came up. For those who might not know, non-negotiables are must-haves you look for in a boyfriend or girlfriend. So essentially if someone you're dating does not have these qualities, it's a deal breaker. Most of the friends I was with are in relationships, so the conversation quickly came my way. Honestly, I've never really thought about it. Strange I know, but it's true. Seeing as non-negotiables are usually pretty important things, I decided to sit down and give it some serious thought. So, without further ado...
Kayleigh's Top 5 Non-Negotiables
1. A sense of humor. I love a guy who can make me laugh, and in return I want to be able to make him laugh. Being too serious is a big no no.
2. Likes to go out/experience things. I love going out and having a good time, so it's only fair if the person I decide to make a part of my life does too. Going out to nightclubs, parties, restaurants, movies, concerts/shows, traveling. Along with that, someone who doesn't mind just relaxing and spending quiet evenings alone every now and then.
3. Wants kids. I'm only 23, so of course I'm not thinking about having kids anytime soon. However, I definitely want to have kids someday. A guy who wants kids is definitely a must.
4. Politically Liberal. To quote something I read online (because it sums up how I feel about this EXACTLY): "I may be able to have sex with someone whose views on the world are diametrically opposed to mine, but I can't BE with someone who thinks abortion should be illegal, or that brown people are stealing our jobs, or that gay people shouldn't get married."
5. Friendly and social. I dated a guy who wanted nothing to do with my friends. Yeah...not good. I want a guy who can hang with my friends and actually wants to get to know them (they ARE a part of my life, after all).
Of course, I have more than only five non-negotiables. These are just some of the really important ones.
So let me ask you...what are YOUR top five non-negotiables?
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